Regardless of how you feel towards any situation, I’m just thankful that God or any Higher Power that resonates with you (if any), does not hold our past and present convictions, transgressions, and the hurtful things that we have said and done to ourselves and others against us or hold us to the same standards nor judge, label, criticize, or write us off in the same way that we do one another daily. We’d might as well give up now if that were the case... That’s favor, grace, and privilege for you.

Be objective, be kind. Say what you mean without being mean. Keep in mind that when you don't have anything nice to say, that does not give you permission to say it anyway. Because many times, no one asked for your opinion in the first place.